Fear.

"I'm afraid because I'm unsure, I'm unsure because I doubt, I doubt because I am afraid."

Sometimes we too willingly allow fear to govern our decisions. We allow being afraid to control what we think of, and worse, what we do. It shouldn't be, it shouldn't be. It's so easy to say that it shouldn't be, but it's so hard to change your mood to make you believe that it really shouldn't be. Fear is a part of us. Fear is the feeling that sits in the back of every situation. Fear is the feeling that stares at you and tries to make you believe that it's not possible, that it's not going to be okay. Fear works hand in hand with worry, both feelings try to drain you, but they know they can't win. They can't win, unless we allow them to win because we are in control. 

One tip for everyone out there:

a simple smile can destroy fear. If not destroy it, a smile will make fear sit back down, a smile will put fear in its' place. We are in control.

 

xx

B